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Episode Summary

Here’s how most financial advisors conduct their “Review” meetings with clients after 3-5 years:

1) “Good to see you again. How is everything going?”

2) “How is life? How are the kids? Are you enjoying your travel? What’s changed since we last talked?”

3) “Ok, great. Well, we updated your plan and portfolio. Everything still looks good. You’re still on track.”

4) “What big plans or vacations do you have coming up this year?”

5) “Ok, great. Call me if you need anything.”

*Rinse and repeat once per year for the next 30 years*

And this auto-pilot approach to review meetings is a big reason why:

  • Most advisors have a client base full of “marginally-satisfied clients”
  • 90% of heirs leave once they inherit money
  • 70% of widows change advisors after their spouse’s death
  • Most clients say they’ll refer but never do

When done right, your meetings with long-time clients are an opportunity to:

  • Strengthen your trust and connection
  • Naturally display and reinforce your value
  • Help your clients live their best lives

You may call it a “Re-Discovery” meeting. You may call it a “Flourish” meeting. You may call it a “Progress” meeting.

Either way, Meghaan Lurtz has a blueprint on how to conduct these meetings that accomplishes all three. 

Things You’ll Learn

  • Why your clients “only want to talk about money”
  • How to avoid long-time clients getting the “7-year itch”
  • Questions to ask clients to help them live their best lives
  • The relationship building power of co-creating visions and goals
  • What the research says about whether small talk is helpful or harmful
  • How to keep clients from becoming disengaged (and the signs to look for)
  • A question to ask at the end of every meeting to improve the client experience
  • Examples of effective ways to set up a “Re-Discovery Meeting” with long-time clients
  • Why asking a prospect to “think it over” may actually be detrimental to the relationship
  • Reflection exercises to use with clients that reinforce the value of working with an advisor
  • Compelling research on why you should talk to clients about the relationships in their lives
  • “Fix, Fine Flourish:” A framework for consistently re-engaging clients and delivering ongoing value

About Meghaan Lurtz, Ph.D.

Meghaan Lurtz is a Senior Research Associate at and the Nerd’s Eye View Blog, where she researches and writes about virtually everything that would fall under the realm of the human side of money. She has her Ph.D. in Personal Financial Planning from Kansas State University, is involved with the financial planning programs for several colleges and universities across the country, and is the former president of the Financial Therapy Association.

And, of equal importance, she is one of the select few individuals in the world who can claim their work is featured more than once on our “Hall of Fame” page!

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“Why The Common Approach Of ‘Think It Over’ Might Work For Product Sales But Undermines Service-Based Financial Planning Relationships” by Meghaan Lurtz

“Leveraging The Superpower of Asking Questions to Create Connection and Clarity” with Meghaan Lurtz

“Improving Client Behavior By Bridging The Gap Between Current And Future Self” with Meghaan Lurtz

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